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Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Writing Prompt: Cooking

This did not go like I planned....

In the past I have not been considered a great, or even a good, cook. My ex-husband and some of our mutual friends often mocked my cooking. Baking especially was not a forte. They still ate the food though, which was always strange. I just assumed they were hungry enough, and kind enough, to tolerate my disastrous kitchen offerings. This is why I found it so odd when I started to have friends who actually said nice things about the food I would throw together.

I went from being the kitchen leper to the one asked to bring that one amazing dish. I did not change. I was making the same things. I was doing the same processes. My still horrible baked goods proved that. I realized that it was not that my food was bad, it was that there was so little appreciation for it. I was no master chef, of course, but the food was made with love and a flair for the creative. I liked to add something a little different. Once again, likely the reason why baking, not my best sport.

After a while, the praise for my creations did something miraculous, I was becoming a better cook. I did want to make some of the more complicated treats. I offered to teach others as I learned. The interesting thing, some of those who I taught started to comment about how poor my cooking was, but over the same dish I had just helped them create. Classy right. That is when I knew it had nothing to do with my skills in the kitchen. This was about acceptance.

I am a decent cook. I like to made enough to feed an army, and fill tummies with comfort foods, so exotic fare is not my focus. This does not mean that I cannot whip up some interesting menu items, but it does depend on when, why, and who I am serving.

I am actually really proud to say that I am no longer serving the people in my life who only offered complaints and rude comments. I am thrilled to feed the stomachs and souls of good people though. I equally am happy to have these same friends bake for me, since, yeah, that is still a bit shaky.

There is a deeper meaning to food. We use it to connect with others, so if those around you are taking in what you are offering but only giving back negativity, stop feeding them. What does cooking mean to you? And what is your favorite dish to serve those you love?

I am also thinking about restarting the Nomday recipe posts. That could be a kick.

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

December Happenings and Gift Ideas!

I am hoping that my students, friends, and creative allies, can help me get the word out about some of the really amazing things I am a part of and working on. Thank you so much! Let me know if there is some way I can spread the word about the wonderful things you do too!

As we roll into the holidays and the close of 2014 there is still time for more adventures, and for planning for 2015! Can you believe we are in the final pages of 2014 already!

I am currently booking for 2015 studio classes and local events. If you or someone you know has an interest, please let me know early.

December brings gift giving to mind! Do you have someone on your nice list with an interest in Bellydance, Tarot, or Writing? Let's work together to give them the perfect gift! And you get something too! With any purchase you get 50% off classes, readings, or books!

Here are some of the exciting things already on the calendar for December. See you soon!

Sundays, 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Private Lessons
Home Studio, Glendale

Mondays, 5:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Private Lessons
Home Studio, Glendale

Mondays, 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Tarot Cafe
Home Studio, Glendale
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tarot-cafe-tickets-14438932235

Tuesdays, 10:00 am - 12:00 pm
Writing Workshop/ Critique
Home Studio, Glendale

Tuesdays, 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm & 8:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Bellydance Drop in Drills
Home Studio, Glendale
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bellydance-drop-in-drills-tickets-14438908163

Wednesdays, 7:30 pm - 8:30 pm & 8:30 pm - 9:30 pm
Bellydance Drop in Drills
Home Studio, Glendale
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bellydance-drop-in-drills-tickets-14438908163

Thursdays, 10:00 am - 12:00 pm
Tarot Cafe
Home Studio, Glendale
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tarot-cafe-tickets-14438932235

Thursdays, 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Private Lesson
Home Studio, Glendale

Thursdays, 5:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Private Lesson
Home Studio, Glendale

Thursdays, 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm
bint Hazine Student Rehearsal
Home Studio, Glendale

Thursdays, 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Writing Workshop/ Critique
Home Studio, Glendale

4th, 1:00 pm
Author Spotlight Interview
Fashion Square Mall

13th - 15th
ComiCon FanFest
Glendale
http://phoenixcomicon.com/page/82

13th, 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm
Desert Caravan
Daddy-o's Bar & Grill, Glendale

20th, 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Evolve Dance Studio Recital
South Mountain Community College

22nd, 5:00 pm - 10:00 pm
Red Tent
Home Studio, Glendale
https://www.facebook.com/events/596690497126218/

Thank you so much to all of you! Have a wonderful holiday season!

Thursday, September 25, 2014

A Very Exciting and Uplifting October

October could be the busiest month so far for me. I am excited, and nervous because I really want to see my classes and events grow. I want to be able to help people with the alternative self care that I offer. I am excited to share some of the amazing events I have planned for the month! There is always time for private bellydance lessons, bellydance gigs and parties, tarot readings in person and online, and of course I am always writing and working on new and exciting projects. Please contact me soon to book for October, November and the Holiday Season! Thank you so much!

October Madness!
Tarot Readings
Metro Center Mall
Mondays, 10am - 9pm
Tuesdays, 10am - 6pm

Bellydance
Foothills Aquatic Center
Tuesdays, 7:10pm - 8:10pm

Bellydance
Rio Vista Recreation Park
Wednesdays, 7:30pm - 8:30pm

Creative Writing
Avondale Recreation Center
Thursdays, 5:30pm - 6:30pm

Bellydance
Avondale Recreation Center
Thursdays, 7pm - 8pm

Tarot Classes
Metro Center Mall
Saturdays, 12pm - 1:30pm

Trolls Book Release
October 6th

Automotive Basics (Ladies Only)
Rio Vista Recreation Center
Saturday 11th & 18th, 9am - 11:30am

Bellydance Workshop (FREE)
Evolve Studio
Friday 17th, 6:30pm - 7:30pm

Red Tent Night (Donations Accepted)
House of Rainbows & Awesome
Thursday 23rd, 6pm - 10pm

Artizona Festival
Sunday 26th, 10am - 4pm



Thursday, September 18, 2014

The Clearing

It has been some time since I have posted anything to this particular blog, and while I would like to say that I will be more diligent, there are many other projects also occurring. So, I make no promises. I also, want to offer some brighter news from the front lines.

While I do not feel elated by this, my son has been allowed the opportunity to live with his father for a few months. There is all manner of emotion about this. I miss him. He and I are a team. Even when my now ex husband was away so often, hell, even when he was around though not really “present”, the kid and I would adventure together. We have a unique bond that only children and full-time moms can create. He is my light and joy, and though he is a sarcastic teen now, we are still deeply connected.

So, I do miss his presence in the house, but he needs to see how his father really parents without me there. He also needs to see what is really going on in his father’s life, even if that means learning to understand how to now address a girl that the kid always viewed as an older sister. I am not certain if he will see her as a “mother” figure now, or if the relationship will simply be confusing.

My roommate, and woman who professed to be my “best friend” has also moved on. She has never had strong regard for my feelings in our relationship, and I fully accepted this when I asked her to move in with me. The offer was meant to help her find her heart again. It was a new hurt when she chose to befriend the family members of as well as the girl who so deeply scarred my life, but while unexpected, I suppose it is not altogether out of character.

I am happy that she has found joy in the relationship that I set her up with. I am concerned for her dog that does not seem to get out very much, but I am grateful to not have the constant worry that something is going to happen to the poor animal while in my home or yard.

Now, the real blessings, for me. I am no longer afraid to come home. For quite some time, especially after my son moved out, I felt like an outcast under my own roof. I felt that the classes I taught, the people that I invited in, were an annoyance to my roommate. I felt as though I was responsible for her unhappiness and I tried hard to for several months to suppress who I was in order to make her feel more comfortable.

The energy is so much clearer now though! I feel that I can breathe without worry. And, with a clear house comes a clear head, and renewed energy to make my life my own at last.

My home is open to all of the wonderful women who dance here. I am also thrilled to invite men and women who write for gatherings and sharing ideas. As things progress I will be opening the doors to do tarot readings and host open discussions on art, writing, and other subjects. I have a gallery wall to share with new artists looking to sell their work as well. The Red Tent nights are a monthly gathering that I created as a gift to my roommate, to make her feel more comfortable, that I never expected to find so much joy in even after her desire to attend had waned.

I feel as if I can breathe and that every breath brings more positive energy into my home. Please contact me if you find any of this enjoyable! My home is open to all positive energy!

Monday, August 26, 2013

Party On, Pizza Lovers!

Party on, pizza lovers! It is the ideal food since the ancient Romans. Laborers in ancient Rome would dine on breads topped with meats, veggies and cheeses that resembled our modern pizza!

Mini Pizzas
Difficulty: 2 out of 10
Preparation Time: 20 minutes
Cook Time: 15 - 20 minutes
Approximate Cost: $20.00 +

1 Package (2) Naan Bread
Pizza sauce of choice: Dressings, olive oil, and pesto spreads are good options if traditional pasta sauce is too boring for your taste buds.
Toppings of choice:
Pepperoni, olives, garlic, spinach leaves, mushrooms (sliced), ham, sausage (cooked and drained), the options are limitless!
Shredded Cheese:
Mozzarella is a good base choice but; parmesan, feta, cheddar, asiago, provolone are also great additions.

Place Naan bread on ungreased cookie sheet or baking stone. Spread sauce choice in a thin layer as close to the edge of the bread as you can. Sprinkle cheese(s), again keeping the layer thin and as close to the edge as possible. Add toppings (reminder: all meats should be cooked and drained before using); be reasonable here too, you can always go back for more, but a loaded pizza is just as cumbersome as an over loaded taco or sandwich. (I could do a whole blog about this issue). Once all toppings are evenly spread add one more thin sprinkle of cheese.

Place pizza(s) in center of oven and cook until edges are golden and cheese is melted. Cooking times and temperatures can vary depending on how you like your crust, and how much you loaded on the sauce and toppings. I settle on 350 for 20 minutes and get a crisp outer crust that is still chewy on the inside. A neat trick to learning pizza crust cooking, read the back of microwave pizza boxes.

Please remember: if you have a great recipe and would like to be a guest blogger on Nomdays, if you have a great or funny experience with cooking, or you want to talk about how awesome the recipes are, contact me or comment on this post. Thank you!

Monday, July 8, 2013

Nomday: Crab Puffs of Epicness!


On June 29th one of my friends had a birthday - no I will not reveal her age, that is rude - but, I will reveal her love for crab rangoons, also known as crab puffs. I thought, what better gift than a bowl full of tempting bite-sized treats, made with love!

Truth is, I am not a fan of crab puffs, but I am happy to make them and even more happy when the work is enjoyed by others.

Crab Rangoons
Difficulty: 5 out of 10
Approximate Cost: $20
Approximate Yield: 40 Puffs
Approximate Prep Time: 30 Minutes
Approximate Cook Time: 1 Minute per Puff

Materials:
Deep Fryer / Small Sauce Pot
Tongs
Large Mixing Bowl
Mixing Spoon
Table Spoon or Melon Baller
Large Plate
Paper Towels
Small Knife
Fork

*Cool Tool of the Week*
This is one of those new and exciting things I mentioned last week. Starting with this post, I will try to showcase a cool kitchen gadget or maybe a neat trick that I used in the making of each week’s recipe. The idea; we have all seen the nifty things on the television, or been to a Pampered Chef, Tupperware or other at home shopping shindig, but while we see all these neat toys, err, tools for the kitchen, sometimes it is hard to figure when we would even use this item, or if it even does what it says it does. With that, I will be your scientist or guinea pig as the case may turn. I have quite a few gadgets already in my kitchen, thanks to my better half, and I have access to some others. If there are tools I do not have though and you are in the area or are willing to part with the item for a trial, please contact me. I am willing to try pretty much anything once.

Food Chopper of Awesome!
A few years back I knew so many people into the whole Pampered Chef thing. (Think they will send me cool stuff if I mention them enough?) My husband, being male, intelligent, mechanically inclined, loves to cook, still mentally twelve, and always looking to make things either more fun, interesting, or easy, fell in love with just about every kitchen tool in the Pampered Chef catalogue. I will admit, while I am not always a fan of having more junk around the house, most of the tools are pretty freaking cool. The Food Chopper is one of those tools.

The Food Chopper that I have is a manual deal, so I do not recommend this if you have trouble with a little bit of a workout. It comes with a little rubber base that is meant to put the victims, I mean, food into. I do not use the base. It just gets tedious putting it on and peeling it off, especially when it is full of chopped bits. It is just as easy to place the food on a cutting board. My extra savvy trick: I make little piles on my large cutting board of the foods I need to cut and move around the surface decimating each one. Then, when I am done surveying my slaughter I lift the board to the bowl at scrap the whole lot in.

As I noted the food needs to be small or pre-cut into bite-sized bits that are easy for the walls of the food chopper to enclose. If the pieces are too big or stuffed too tight it just ends in a lumpy mess. Also, if you are going along and allow too much of the food chunks to get lodged in the blades, again it gets a big tedious, but it isn’t too bad.

I have carpal tunnel in both hands, so while cutting is not a picnic, slamming my palm down repeatedly isn’t long term giggles either. I will say this is a stunning way to relieve pent up aggression, or too much energy in a young kitchen assistant (supervision required, this does have blades inside). It does make short work of garlic, ginger, water chestnuts and most firm foods. Again, I have the Pampered Chef model and cannot vouche for less superior, e.i. cheaper versions.  

Onward!

Ingredients:
Vegetable Oil
16 oz shredded Imitation Crab Meat
16 oz softened Cream Cheese
40 ct Won Ton Wraps
6 chopped Chives or Green Onions
8 oz chopped Water Chestnuts
2 tbsp chopped Ginger
2 tbsp chopped Garlic
2 tbsp Soy Sauce

Directions:
Filling:
Leave cream cheese out to soften in the mixing bowl. Shred imitation crab meat and add to the cream cheese. Fold crab meat and cream cheese until blended. Add all other ingredients except Won Ton wraps and oil. Blend ingredients in bowl until smooth.
Heat oil in a pot or deep fryer. You will need enough oil to submerge each puff.
*This part of the process is really best done assembly line style with at least one helper, but if that is not possible then it may be wise to make all the puffs and then drop them in a few at a time into the oil.*
To make the puff: spoon about a tablespoon or so into the center of the wrap. Pull the corners of the wrap up to touch and envelop the filling. Squeeze the corners together before dropping into the oil.
Drop each puff into the oil and cook until golden. Lift the puff out with tongs or a slotted spoon and let cool on a cookie sheet (with a paper towel underneath to catch the oils) or on a plate with a paper towel.

Crab Puffs are great warm or cold! I recommend making them way ahead of time because while the process is easy, it is also tedious. These are so worth the time though and I think they are easier than wontons.

Enjoy! And, please, if you have images, comments or ideas about some crab puff variations, adventures or even mishaps, send them on over! I love to see other kitchen adventures!

* Next Time on Nomday: Posole! *


Monday, July 1, 2013

The Return of Nomday: Exciting News

Do you remember when I used to do this little thing called Nomday, every Monday? It was this fun little post with a nice simple recipe for the work week. Remember? Yeah, and there were often cute stories about how silly I got when making the dish, or how I discovered something new and exciting in the world of cooking. Yes. And, sometimes I would even post delectable pictures of each dish.


Then, my one year internship really got rolling and I totally failed at blogging. So, to make up for this horrible blogger behavior I bring you; the new and improved Nomdays 2.0!


Starting next week there will be more pictures, more detailed recipes, the history behind some of these crazy foods and even more silly stories of my kitchen mayhem! Don’t worry, I will stick to the simple stuff most of the time and I will even play with a few vegetarian meal ideas like before. I am not promising this part, but I even hope to have a few guest bloggers post some of their favorite recipes.


It is like the surface of the sun here is Arizona, but it is about to get even hotter as I dare to dive back into blogging and especially Nomdays!


As always, I really want to thank everyone who reads, comments and shares my posts. I do take requests too. Maybe there is something you have been wanting to try, or something you think I could make into a more simplistic recipe; let me know about it. Also, if you are a blogger who likes to chatter about recipes, please contact me, I would be thrilled to offer you a guest pass to the madness. And, if you know me personally and you would like to supply the goods for a Nomday experiment, please feel free! The payback will be half of the finished dish and your name in lights (okay, bold and italicized text) on that Nomday post.

I am just a small time writer and mom with very little skill in the realm of cooking, but I do have a love for good food, gatherings with friends, and low budget meals. Until, next week! Happy Nomday!

Saturday, January 19, 2013

bint Hazine Chatter: Two Weeks into 2013


It is two weeks into the New Year and bint Hazine has been fairly active. I think I really need to reflect now and again on just how much we do, especially when I am feeling sort of low. 

Most of bint Hazine are finding their sensual, sexy side this month with Mizz Lucy’s VaVaVoom classes at Plaza de Anaya, Tempe. It is not likely that our friends and fans will be seeing that much more skin in future bint Hazine appearances, but expect that there might be a few more dances that sample, as DREADmonboogaloo did, from the slinky side of dance.

AdeebA’s classes at Rio Vista have been cancelled this session due to low enrollment. (Tell your friends Peoria students, this class can only happen if there are five or more signed on). Glendale has shimmy! Foothills classes are ago this session though, and we are working on combos and technique on Tuesday nights with a very full class! FREE classes at the Civic Space are rather quiet as well which seems crazy. Free dance classes on a Saturday morning and not too early either. Where is everyone?

We are looking forward to at least a few gigs in 2013 including plans to join The DREAD Fleet for Phoenix Comic Con and Pirate Mud Wresting. If you have an event upcoming, please let us know, we are eager to dance for most events and small parties. In January, AdeebA performed a last minute gig for the Hip Historian, Mashall Shore at Phoenix Metro Retro for his talk on Route 66. So, we really will do just about any venue.

And, most important, bint Hazine is celebrating the birthdays of two of our very special dancers this month! Happy Birthday to Samira Nadim and Sarai Gabrielle! Samira is the sexy embodiment of sass and sarcasm; she brings the sharp but sweet edge to bint Hazine. Sarai looks innocent but we know she has trouble behind that angelic smile. Thank you ladies so much for the unique beauty you bring to this troupe. You are glittering treasures!

We are working on at least three new pieces for 2013! Don’t worry though, we will still offer the favorites including Tunak Tunak Tun! Thank you so much to everyone who supports us; friends, family, and fellow dancers!
Follow bint Hazine: Facebook.com/bint.hazine

Friday, December 14, 2012

For Impact Friday: Alzheimer's Association


As I mentioned in the last For Impact Friday post, this is something I am giving a go at in the interest of expanding my understanding of 501c3 companies and my internship with Public Allies, Arizona. In the first posting I also mentioned that my time with Public Allies is a short span, a mere ten months. Yes, not even a year to attempt to understand such an important part of community. This is not a classroom based experience though, and I always learn much more hands on. While we do spend a fair amount of hours, Fridays mostly, in lectures to better understand the business end of non-profit, the remainder of my nine-to-five weekdays are on those front lines. So, what is my troop?

The Alzheimer’s Association: Desert Southwest Chapter serves to bring help and hope to individuals and families dealing with Alzheimer’s disease and dementia. It was not until I found myself with this amazing organization that I realized how much Alzheimer’s already touched my life.

One in six people over 65, in the United States are diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or related dementia! One in six! After age 85 that increases to 50%. There is no cure. There is no way to vaccinate against it. There is research and hope, but there needs to be more serious focus and awareness from the government.
Heard of the Baby Boom generation? Yes, they are an enormous population and they are about to fall right into this health risk! What is the nation doing to prepare? Not enough. What can you do?  

You can start by contacting the Alzheimer’s Association chapter in your area and requesting information about this terrible degenerative disease. You can offer to be a volunteer educator, and learn how to present the facts to your community. You can train as a facilitator for local support groups. Educate yourself too; how can you protect your brain health, what factors might put you at greater risk? 

Most important, make others aware now that you are. Thank you!

Alzheimer’s Association Desert Southwest Chapter
1028 East McDowell Avenue, Phoenix
www.alz.org/dsw